Give.

I think the secret to a successful relationship really boils down to this word. It's a verb.. which means you have to do something.

As we allow ourselves to see the things that we need to tweak, we give back to our "significant other." We, in fact, are saying, "hey, I know that I need to do this.. and even though it's hard, I will do it."

I need to give more.

I see the areas I need to change and where I need to grow - and instead of only realizing it, I need to act on that.